Ed Baker was one of the most wonderful, caring, compassionate men I have ever known. When I talked about my big family Ed's name was sure to come up and people would always ask who was Ed. It was sometimes a bit of a difficult question because Ed was just Ed, as my cousin mentioned at Ed's funeral, it was almost as if every family was just supposed to have an Ed. Ed was a man who had some mental limitations and my aunt and uncle became his caretakers over 35 years ago. So for as long as I have been in the family, Ed has been in the family. Ed has always been around playing Legeos or the harmonica and kindly warming the heart of every member of our family by loving us and being an adult kid who we could play Legos with all the time! I am very blessed to have seen my kids play Legos with Ed as I did and there will definitely be a big void at family gatherings, I think we will probably have to have the Lego table out still just as a remembrance.
So after 103 years of being on this earth Ed got to fall asleep and rest peacefully. It was a wonderful way for him to go because he was fearful of death (as any child of 5-6 is) and this way he didn't have to worry or be afraid and I can hope he was having great dreams of playing Legos with his family!
We gathered at Ed's house for a memorial Saturday night and had a fun time telling stories and playing with Legos and eating his favorite meal - Kentucky Fried Chicken.
Lucy thought it was tasty!
Britt, my cousin who grew up every day with Ed is teaching in Korea and had to join us through skype but she managed to snag some KFC even over there and enjoy it with us.
The Feast
Jaydon met a new friend
Playing with Legos in honor of Ed
We built a Lego structure where everyone added a couple pieces!
Jaydon and dad playing with the Lego train
Telling some stories and sharing our memories
Lucy and Grandma playing with Legos
Aunt Mary and Phil
Jim and Jaydon
Jenny and L
At the end of the night while we were all talking I peeked into the other room and found Jaydon like this. He glanced back a little nervous that he might get in trouble for being up on the table but in reality it was just such a wonderful way to see him taking part in what Ed loved!